So, a bit of a different post this time, in the sense that usually I post a complete story of the time Kieran and I have spent together. I’m still going to do that, although this time it’ll be split into 3 separate posts simply because there’s so much to write… until last Monday when he flew home for the final time, Kieran and I spent the longest time we’ve ever managed together. Since the beginning of our relationship in 2016, we’ve known we’d be grabbing any chance available to spend time together but more than likely that’d be fleeting weekends and a couple of weeks at a time if we were really lucky. Ive been very lucky that Kieran’s parents have let me stay at theirs for increasingly longer amounts of time every time I visit. Mum would also do the same for Kieran if work commitments allowed for him to stay that long. However, me staying at theirs means he doesn’t have to take so much time off. With working from home the new normal, I’ve been able to see him much more than I ever did anyway. But this time, all the way back in mid October which seems so long ago now, Kieran and I started our longest run of time together, exactly 1 month, when he flew down to Southampton on Monday 18 October. Originally, before the pandemic hit and lockdown came into being, along with Josh we’d booked some more comedy shows. These are usually an excuse for Kieran to come and stay. But, because of all the rearrangements due to lockdown preventing anything from happening, all our comedy shows were rescheduled to take place within weeks of each other. First, Kieran, Josh and I had Ed Byrne at Southampton Guildhall; then Kieran and I, with Lesley, Rebecca and Kieran’s auntie Gill, had Chris Ramsey at the Utilita arena in Newcastle; finally Josh, Kieran and I had John Bishop again at the Guildhall. This meant quite a lot of travelling, especially for Kieran. In this post, I’ll write about our time when Kieran came to stay for Ed Byrne. Then, in the following two posts, I’ll write about my time in Newcastle and then Kieran’s return trip to Southampton a few weeks later.
So, on Monday 18 October, after what seemed a very long 5 weeks since we’d last seen each other, Kieran boarded a plane from Newcastle to Southampton, where Dad, M, T and I met him at the airport. Because the parking charges are so high and my disabled parking badge hasn’t yet been renewed, Dad didn’t really want to park in the usual airport car park. So, while T and I went into the airport to wait for Kieran’s arrival, Dad drove around for a bit to see if he could find a cheaper spot. At exactly 14 minutes past 7, a special assistance member of staff walked Kieran through to us. As always, it was great to see him and we had a big hug.
When we arrived home, Mum and S were in from work and Mum had stew and dumplings all ready for dinner. It was very nice.
On Tuesday, in the spirit of Kieran being on holiday, we had a long lie in before dragging ourselves out of bed, showering and having our lunch, cheese sandwiches left by Mum with bbq pringles and halloween edition orange fondant fancies cakes. Afterwards, Kieran found Gavin & Stacey showing on TV so we watched that followed by Brooklyn Nine-Nine. Then, we listened to the champions league match between Club Brugge and Manchester City, which ended 5-1 to Manchester City. During the match, after promising there weren’t too many bugs and I wouldn’t be thrown by any of the new features, Kieran updated my iPad software to iOS 15. Thankfully, as he said, I mostly haven’t had any problems with the new features, except that the new Focus mode doesn’t work quite how I thought it should and somehow my Bluetooth keyboard doesn’t type any more… luckily, these are things I can work around. For dinner, Mum cooked lamb, chicken and beef burgers with toppings and skinny fries. Chicken and lamb burgers with cheese, pineapple and mushrooms for me; beef and lamb burgers with cheese and lettuce for Kieran; beef and lamb burgers with cheese, cucumber and a little bit of lettuce for T. We listened to Atletico Madrid vs Liverpool in the champions league, which finished 3-2 to Liverpool; this meant I was of course very happy with the score, especially as the match included almost all the craziness any match can have, including: a penalty, a penalty being ruled out by VAR, a red card, yellow cards and the Atletico Madrid manager leaving the pitch without shaking Liverpool manager Klopp’s hand at the end of the match. It was eventful to say the least and very entertaining. Upstairs, we listened to compilation videos of Friday Night Dinner best bits.
On Wednesday morning, we watched more Gavin & Stacey before having the ham sandwiches Mum had made for our lunch. At 3pm, Grandad arrived to take us to his house for the weekly Wednesday dinner with himself and Nan. Before dinner, we watched The Chase. Nan had made cottage and shepherds pie for dinner; as always, it was lovely. When we got home, Kieran listened to the Manchester United vs Atalanta champions league match, which Manchester United won 3-2. Afterwards, we watched even more Gavin & Stacey.
On Thursday morning, we had tea and biscuits for breakfast and finished watching Gavin & Stacey. It was good to see it again, it never gets old. That afternoon, we ordered takeaway from Southampton Grill so that we’d had a meal before our comedy show that night. Kieran had a mixed kebab and chips with a tango orange, I had donner meat and chips, we shared some mozzarella sticks and ordered T a cheese burger and chips which she had when she arrived home from college. At 6pm, we left home and caught the bus into town, where Josh was waiting for us. He guided us to the Guildhall, where we sat in the square chatting for a while because we were even early for doors opening. You can always rely on Josh to get you somewhere in plenty of time. Safe to say I don’t think I’ve ever been anywhere with Josh and been late. When doors opened and we headed inside, I had a bit of a muddle showing my covid pass. I thought they’d accept my vaccine card but they wanted the pass stored in the NHS app on my phone. For some reason, I couldn’t find it so, in the end, they allowed me through on seeing my card. Once we were sat in our seats, I found that I did indeed have the app as I’d known I did and the boys showed me how to add the pass to the wallet on my phone, which is really easy to get onscreen whenever I need it. Ed Byrne was very funny with his If I’m Honest show. I’d been a bit apprehensive before the show, wondering if I actually found him funny. As it’s quite a while since I’ve watched his comedy, definitely way before the lockdown probably with Kieran at some point, I couldn’t actually remember if I liked him or not; that’s another thing epilepsy has broken in my memory. But I was glad to find that the boys had been right and I enjoyed the show very much. A line from the show is what gave this post it’s title, probably the funniest line of the whole thing. Just like it had been for the Sarah Millican and Chris & Rosie Ramsey podcast shows, it was so great to be out seeing live comedy again with the boys. It’ll never get boring.
On Friday, we had another long lie in before having more tea and biscuits for breakfast. For the rest of the morning, Kieran sorted my laptop out, starting updates and checking settings. Later, T, Kieran and I headed into town for a date afternoon +1. As we didn’t think we’d be able to have a regular date night this time, we thought we’d go out for dinner and use T as our guide. Of course, we weren’t going to tell her to go away as soon as we got to the restaurant so she became our +1. We chose Ed’s Easy Diner in West Quay because Kieran had never been and T had glowing reviews after going with friends the previous week. On arrival, we were told they didn’t have any chicken, which was a bit of a disappointment as half of their menu was chicken-based. However, we soon found alternatives. Kieran chose hot wings, the smoky Joe burger (beef burger with bacon, cheese and bbq sauce), cheese & bacon loaded chips and a vanilla milkshake. T had macaroni cheese, cheese & bacon fries and a mud pie milkshake. Unfortunately, they didn’t realise the macaroni cheese was just a side rather than a full portion but the size of the loaded chips more than made up for it. I went for the smoky Joe burger as well but with ordinary chips and a Go Bananas milkshake. The milkshakes were delicious. And huge! Mine had peanut butter milkshake topped by salted caramel sauce and pieces of banana. We were going to have puddings but were absolutely stuffed after one course and the shakes. Kieran treated us to the meal.
That evening, we watched The Chase and part of Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets which was on ITV2. Afterwards, T joined us to watch Gogglebox.
On Saturday morning, Mum made us tasty sausage sandwiches for breakfast. Then, the rest of the day was full of football matches which we listened to on Talksport: Chelsea vs Norwich 7-0, Crystal Palace vs Newcastle 1-1 and Brighton vs Manchester City which Man City won 4-1. Then, after some thought, we realised we could have a date night if we paid for Dad and T to have a meal out too. M was working so they couldn’t go together and we didn’t think it was fair for us to get Dad to take us out then go home to wait in his flat on his own for us to finish when he could then come and pick us up and take us home. Kieran and I had agreed on Nando’s after having such a good date night there in July and a lovely Nando’s in Newcastle with Josh in September. Meanwhile, T was very excited that she was finally going to have a Harvester, agreed by Dad. Unfortunately, when we arrived in Whiteley, Harvester wasn’t open. We weren’t sure whether it could be having an upgrade or if there was staff shortages due to covid but T and Dad definitely weren’t having it for their dinner. In the end, they settled on the burger restaurant Five Guys, somewhere neither of them had been before. So, armed with my bank card, they left us at a table in Nando’s and went to see if they liked it. This time, Kieran chose the double pitta, instead of his usual burger, with hot sauce and peri salted chips. I went for my classic double wrap with lemon and herb sauce and peri salted chips. After looking through the menu earlier and seeing you can add extras to your meal, I decided to add some pineapple to my wrap and made sure, when I was customising it with the waitress, that I left the chilli jam in after discovering how lovely it was in July. We also got a portion of halloumi sticks, something I’ve also discovered I like a lot, and an extra pot of chilli jam for my chips. Kieran had beer and I had coke 0. As the meal had been so lovely, we decided we’d finish it off with pudding. I had salted caramel brownie with coconut ice cream and Kieran went for vanilla frozen yoghurt. After we’d finished, Dad and T came to collect us. It turned out they’d had a great meal too, topped off by the fact that it’d been free due to it being their first time at Five Guys. So it really had been a lovely evening all round. Nando’s Whiteley always seems to cook the food just right and the service is always amazing.
After Dad dropped us off at home, with very full bellies and that feeling of contentment that comes after a delicious dinner, Kieran and I watched Chris Ramsey’s All Growed Up show in preparation for seeing him live the following week. It was very funny.
We had tea and toast for breakfast on Sunday and Kieran spent the day working on stuff on my laptop and iPad. We watched more of The Chase. Mum cooked roast pork with roast potatoes, mash potato, cauliflower, Yorkshire puddings, green beans, carrot & swede and sliced carrots for dinner. Again, another tasty meal. We listened to more football, Manchester United vs Liverpool on BBC Radio 5live, which Liverpool won 5-0, a very pleased me of course. Later, we watched Josh Widdicombe’s What Do I Do Now stand up DVD.
Monday meant we’d come to the end of our first week and the end of our first stint in Southampton. We had another lie in but once we were up, we ordered Dominoes for the three of us. It was half term for T and of course they were more than keen to partake in the afternoon treat. I thought it was a nice way to celebrate in a little way her getting through their first half term at college. They don’t agree but I think they’ve settled in really well and adjusted to the step up in education level. They’ve made new friends and travels independently to and from college campus, something they’ve always been very nervous to do. Our feast arrived and we tucked in. Kieran had the Meat Fielder pizza and T & I had Create Your Own: I chose a bbq Italian-style base with pineapple, sweet corn, sausage and hot dog slices; T had a bbq original base with chicken breast strips, meatballs and garlic spread. We bought garlic bread, chicken strippers, potato wedges, normal cookies and their limited edition After Eight mint cookies. While we were being greedy pigs, we watched The Chase and a little bit of Judge Judy. Annoyingly, I didn’t enjoy my pizza as much as I usually do. I’d been really keen to have a Dominoes as I usually love it. But I think my change in sauce and toppings disappointed me because it wasn’t as nice. Normally, I stick to a Create Your Own with tuna, sweet corn, mushrooms and garlic spread with Italian-style base. It’s a poor alternative to my favourite tuna and garlic pizza at Sambuca Blyth, my favourite restaurant up there, but was the best available option during lockdown when I was starved of my favourite. Turns out the Dominoes version is lovely, though, just nowhere near as much as the Sambuca option. Next time, I’ll remember to stick to what I like best.
After we’d finished our food, somehow managing to eat nearly all of it, it was time to head upstairs and check we had everything packed for our flight. Kieran was marvelling at how much he’d enjoyed the After Eight cookies, which T on the other hand had declared disgusting. While sorting our stuff, I received a call from a lady I didn’t know from Guide Dogs. She’s taken over the role of another member of staff and was calling in to check in with me. A few days earlier, I’d been talking to my friend Tiny and he’d advised once I returned from my trip up north it’d be the right time to inform Guide Dogs of my planned move to Blyth sometime in the new year. So getting the call from this lady seemed as good a time as any to let them know. I’d been dreading it, thinking maybe I’d be taken off the list in Southampton due to my imminent departure. However, I was very surprised to find I can stay active on the list and they’ll continue to look for a match until I leave. She said when I know my moving date to get back in touch with her and she’ll start the process of moving me to the Newcastle team so they can be looking for a match up there. I’m not 100% sure yet whether I’ll be suspended on the list in Newcastle until I have enough routes to meet the criteria for working a dog. This lady didn’t seem to think so. I’ve also more recently been told by the head of the My Guide program for Southampton that once I know when I’m moving she can get in touch with the head of My Guide for Newcastle so they can find me a My Guide volunteer asap to help with route learning up there. Of course, nobody will compare to the lovely Jenny. I was also informed that as I’ve been on the waiting list over 2 years — now actually 3 including the suspended period which seems to count as well — I’m in the priority 1 category which is reserved for those needing replacement dogs. So overall, a very positive call that left me feeling a little more reassured about the situation.
Once we were sure we were all set, it was time to wait for Dad to take us to the airport and head up north in the air…